1. Making judgment of women by photos. Men are attracted by photos as if they are from women’s magazine, glamourous photographs. The interesting point is that 20 percent of women receive 80 percent of letters. It does not mean that they are more interesting or more beautiful than others. Just their pictures are better than other ones. Or they have money to pay a professional photographer while other girls cannot afford this.

I talked to a man from Portugal not long ago, he was complaining that he get acquainted with several Rissian ladies by internet, in the pictures they sent, they were completely breathtaking, but when he came to Russia to meet them, they were just average, not extraordinary, not like supermodels from podiums.

When he was in St-Petersburg he saw many beautiful russian girls there. Walking in the streets, laughing a lot and talking with their friends, they were not hurrying. Why then he met Russian ladies, who were so beautiful on pictures and so exhausted, tired, dull, not funny in reality? Sometimes it also happens. If a girl is getting exhausted at work (for example she needs to rent an apartment, which is very expensive in Russia, or she is alone taking care about her child) of course she looks not her very best. You cannot imagine how this Rjssian girl can change after rest or if she has not to work so hard anymore. Accidentally, all the Russian girls with whom he met, were very hardworking ladies and after full-day work. And on the streets he saw Russian girls who were on vacation, and spending it in such a way, or students on holiday, or even does not work at all as they are from rich families or have rich boyfriends taking care about them. This is the reason of such a big difference.

2. The second mistake made by men, who are looking for a Russian bride, do is the fact that they are looking for a model-look in appearance of girl, they want to make jealous all their friends. But in reality they want to live with a normal type of a girl – kind-hearted, sincere, warm, faithful.

Unfortunately, most of model-looking girls do not want to have real relationships, all they want is men’s admiration, they want to be always in center of mens’attention. They do not need such things of relations like closeness, warmth, intimacy.

Another reason is that if there is such a paragon combining model-look appearance with comfort and warmth, they are really very rare. We have an anecdote about it: Two men are sitting near the place, burning in fire. One man, looking in fire, says: - I never married in my whole entire life. – Why? – I was always looking for a perfect woman for me. – And? Couldn’t you find her? – No, I found her. But I obtained that I am not a perfect man for her.

It’s a very sad joke, but I’ve met some men acting in the same way and I saw them on different such kind of sites for more than 10 years.

3. Next mistake is a matter of choice. Some men just can’t stop doing it (some women also have same kind of problems). The idea of that somewhere is better than here. They find someone, everything is going good, meet them, like them, but they continue to look for a new russian women. Trying to find someone better. The idea of that somewhere there is a person, with whom it will be more interesting, it will be better is like a poison acting in them.

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