There is something almost sovereign or monarchical about a classy woman: like a queen's, her wishes are her commands. It really does matter how you carry yourself in life! Poise is that extra special quality that will carry you with ease and grace through any situation. It gives you the ability of speaking and acting in the correct type of way - no matter who it is you are with.
Tip: having class also makes you the lucky lady who has the components to attract any type of man. Think for a minute about these three women - Princess Mary of Denmark, Jackie Onassis or Grace Kelly. These very classy ladies were not born into Royalty but, who would know it if not told? They became sophisticated princesses. Grace Kelly was born a contractor's daughter but, because of the fact she behaved as a princess (wasn't just beautiful) - she married into BLUE BLOOD!
What about Princess Diana? Men everywhere perceived her as one of the most beautiful women who ever walked the face of the earth. (And, so she WAS.) They often state that she was beautiful not only on the outside - but on the inside. Her grace and spirit was admittedly a big part of her beauty.
It is a true fact that Princes Mary of Denmark took a 6 week poise and etiquette course with a company called 'StarMaker Studios.' They state on their website: 'Simple and powerful ways to perform, communicate and move with confidence, and express yourself with excellence.' YOU can also do something similar to what Mary did!
You can learn how to carry yourself, how to sit, talk, stand and walk in that certain way! Don't be afraid to carry yourself like a princess but, I would not suggest you ever come across as snobby, haughty or arrogant. That being said, those high caliber women do have that certain level of dignity and bearing.
They are also polite and courteous; their manners are always flawless and ideally they are warm and approachable too. When I mention their flawless manners, this doesn't just mean their manners at the table but, everywhere. Classy women also move and gesture with grace and elegance. They also have a good measure of self-control in any situation.