10 ways to help get your ex back

Here are some sure fire ways to help you get back with your ex today!

10. Reach out and touch them. Yes, it sounds simple, but it is a cardinal sin to play too hard. Just because they would page you ten times a day when you were together, does not mean that they will call you once a week now that you're apart. If the relationship was a long one, chances are they are probably somewhat shy about courting anyway.

11. E-mail your ex. I am not telling you to send them love poems in red font, but you can forward him/her an interesting article, a picture, even a simple note saying "hey, what's up?"

12. Don't "frequent" others I know it's tempting. They might understand if you date someone, but try not to go too far with them.

13. Don't ever forget birthdays or anniversaries. Everyone wants to be the center of the universe and treated well on their birthday. If you can, give your ex an e-card.

14. Call your ex every now and then. Again, uncertainty is to be avoided in life, finance and love. They'd rather know what you are up to than imagine you are with another woman. Comfort them by showing you care, that they're still in your thoughts, and always will be.

15. Analyze and study your ex. I hate to say it, but you need to be careful and attentive when your ex speaks. You are no longer sleeping with her, and there is an increasing façade that is being built between the two of you. So read deep into what they say and what they don't say.

16. Don't be jealous; be on the look-out. The best way to see how your ex feels about you after a breakup and what your chances of getting back are, is to see how she acts with other guys. Does she stand up for you when they put you down? Or does she take out the butcher knife and dig it into your back? Does you ex see friends to talk about the breakup, or is your ex making out with them in the car? You won't be told directly, but hints are there for the taking.

17. Don't play games. I know it's hard. I myself always tell people to be somewhat reserved. But that is one thing and playing games is a totally different ballgame. Signals are very important. As a result, you are better off emitting the correct signals to make the transition. Don't play with them, you don't want to mess up your ex's life.

18. Hold your feeling close to your chest. I know what advice I just gave; but nonetheless, keep your cards close. Why? Relationships are hard enough when you are together. But the real factor is power. Power is key in business just as it is in love. Don't give them too much power by saying those three little words.

19. Stay in shape and improve yourself. Despite who actually did the breaking up, there were reasons. Make sure that you always hold your head up high when time goes by and improve on the things that were complained about. Why? You want them to regret their decision, right? What better way than to live life to the fullest and show her that you did everything that she said you would never do? That applies to love, life and business.