'Have a winning attitude'- You've lost count of the number

of times you've heard this from self- help gurus, from your

colleague or maybe even from your next- door neighbor. And

needless to say, you always haven't liked what you have

heard. You've muttered 'Why do all these fools keep saying

the same old stuff?' to yourself.

But have you ever wondered if this is just another cliche or

something that can transform your life totally? Let's see

how it actually works. How you do anything is how you do

everything. Your attitude towards life is your attitude

towards everything. How you look at life in general can be

termed as your attitude towards life. If you look upon

everything negatively, you allow pessimism to rule you. Yet,

on the other hand, a positive attitude heightens your self-

esteem. With positivity surrounding your life, you'll also

be able to influence others positively.

A winning attitude is one that allows you to march ahead

steadily on the path to your goal. If you have a winning

attitude everyone around you will realize that- you'll take

most circumstances in your stride and you'll make sure that

nothing much deters you. Having the right attitude has got

loads to do with how you view your own existence.

To develop a winning attitude, you have to first feel good

about yourself. And when you feel good about yourself, you

will feel much happier, more content, self- assured and

confident. And the correct attitude also gives you the

capacity to help others, to set their lives in order.

Keeping and maintaining a positive attitude might be

difficult at the start. The fastest way to acquire a

positive attitude is to hang around in the company of

positive people. The human mind is an utterly sensitive

region and the moment it experiences a change in

surroundings it starts responding.

Positivity is infectious by nature. The more time you spend

with a positive attitude person, the more likely you are

going to be influenced to think, feel and speak positively.

And as time passes, you will acquire a positive attitude as

well.

Having positive people as company, though, will not solve

your problems immediately. What you need to possess above

everything is self- belief. You need to fervently believe in

your goals and aspirations. No instance should come when

your faith in yourself falters. Your self- belief should

move up with every passing day. The secret behind a winning

attitude is the belief that nothing is impossible. And

nothing means nothing.

But when you make space for doubt and disbelief to enter

your mind, you be self sabotaging yourself. Everyone wants

to be a winner, to be progressing towards their goals but

what they do not consider are the pains a person has to go

through to become one. And the winning quality cannot always

be assessed by a person's material achievements. A winning

attitude scores more than all the wealth one can accrue in

one's lifetime. Become a winner with a befitting attitude.

And do spread the message.