Over the long-term, no relationship will be healthy if the other person is in a constant state of jealousy or fear. Do you want to avoid the endless fights and accusations? If so, here are some suggestions:

Simple Steps

1. Get the individual to discuss their jealous feelings to you. 2. Re-examine your actions to determine if they are appropriate with others. 3. Ask a trusted friend to provide an objective view of the situation. 4. Seek to avoid placing yourself in compromising positions that could be interpreted differently. 5. Get professional advice if the situation continues to get worse. 6. Accept your situation if you can’t change it. 7. Have faith and create a better situation.

The Path Forward

Building meaningful relationships isn’t an easy thing to do. Jealousy is an emotional process, not logical one. Sadly, many individuals who deal with a jealous mate try to justify their mates’ actions. Do you recognize how jealousy and fear are related? Clearly, true love doesn’t operate in fear. This can be clearly seen biblically. In 1 John 4:18, the Bible declares, "There is no fear in love; but perfect love casts out fear, because fear involves torment. But he who fears has not been made perfect in love." Real love is not about control. Therefore, you shouldn’t let the ugliness of jealousy destroy your happiness. Commit yourself to meaningful relationships today and leave the bitterness behind. The clock is ticking.

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