Have you ever received (or written) an email like this one?

"Thank you for your correspondence. We appreciate your desire to contact us, and someone will get back to you shortly."

Kinda cold and stale, eh? I'm used to seeing things like this from corporations, and from the back of our refrigerator, but how about us teensy business folks?

You don't want to sound like an automaton, but you also don't want to be inappropriately familiar, or sloppy. And, of course, there's that thought going on in the back of your head: 'Do I sound unprofessional?'

Professionalism is a good thing, except that what passes for professionalism in the business world, really isn't. It's more like zombie-ism.

Where Did Corporate-Speak Come From?

Professionalism is defined by the Oxford American Dictionary as "the competence or skill expected of a professional."

Notice that the definition only refers to "competence or skill." Nowhere in the definition does it say that you have to starch your shirt, speak in multi-syllabic gobbledy-gook, or maintain a robotic-like unemotional composure in your writing and speaking.

Here's what I think happened to professionalism: As businesses changed from primarily sole proprietor craftsmen to larger and larger corporations, it became less and less likely that anyone you spoke to at a business had any real decision-making power at all. And yet, they still had responsibility for results.

When someone is responsible to create results, but doesn't have the power to make decisions, what happens? Well, often someone feels nervous about their job security. And so they play it safe.

Playing it safe in this instance means hiding by creating as much distance as possible between them and the situation. And thus good, old-fashioned politeness turns into: "Please excuse our situation, we are endeavoring to respond in as rapid a fashion as possible." Ugh! Who talks like that?

Perfection is a Quality of the Divine.

Here's the obscure, unnamed hope driving the drivel: "If I handle this perfectly, there won't be any problems, and it will all work out okay."

Unfortunately, that's a myth. True perfection belongs only to Source. Although our hearts, as doorways to the Divine, can swim in that beauty and perfection, we can't really express perfection. Which is actually a good thing.

Your clients do want your Divinity. But, what enables them to access it is your humanity. Your imperfect, vulnerable, quirky, lovable self.

Be Yourself, Gosh Darn-It!

Listen, it may sound trite, but I'll say it anyway: Be you! Bring in your sense of humor, your zaniness, your vulnerability. Show up as a human being with a heart in your communication, and your clients, readers, customers and anyone else who comes 'round your business will come to know you. And as they know you, they will love you.

If instead you hide behind a so-called "professional" demeanor, they won’t ever get a chance to know you, and so they won’t get a chance to trust you. And if they don’t come to connect with your heart, then you’re just another whatever you are, and your sacred, beautiful gift of a business is reduced to just another commodity, and a less viable one at that.

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