You've known all along, no doubt, that you've got a G-spot and accepted the prevailing view that all women have it.

I can,--your man can, I mean--stimulate you by going in with two fingers to send you skyhigh! In the event yours is clueless about reaching for it with his fingers, for example, he can always get the skills needed to stimulate you in myriads of guides on the market.

The guides out there to show him what to do, and you can tell him how to touch it to send you through the roof. So much for easy access to your moan zone.

But did you know he also has a G-spot? Apparantly, each man has a G-spot and you can stimulate it and send him crawling up the walls with excitement by stimulating it with your fingers.

There's a feature in that image that stirs me, and I wonder whether you'd want to go in there to stimulate him. Rediculous wonder. You want to stimulate him by any means, but . . .

. . . when you know where it's located--his G-spot--you'll probably agree with me not to go in.

I recoiled when I recently read the writings of some X experts. They're actually suggesting you can send him skyhigh by stimulating his G-spot.

And that's acceptable with me, when my woman stays out my body.

I think most men would reject what these sex experts say women can do to send their men crawling up the walls.

Where it's Located

And where's his G-spot, you ask? It's his prostrate, the walnut size gland located under his bladder. Rest two fingers on that region situated between his testicles and his anus and you're on it. Press here, massage there to stimulate and launch him skyhigh.

"His prostate is situated above your fingers, inside his body," says Ian Kerner, Ph.D., author of Sex Detox, "so by applying pressure here, you're indirectly rubbing his G-spot."

How much pressure? It's his call to let you know what's too much. And you've got to know when to amp up the pressure to bring him to a climax.

And here's were I recoil from the thought and suggestion Kerner gives women. If you want to blow his mind, you'd go in through his anus to prod his prostrate--G-spot.

How to Stimulate Him Big Time

I have a problem with my woman entering my back door in the throes of stimulation. That's exactly what Kerner is suggesting you do to your man to stimulate his G-spot: go in through his back door to stimulate his G-spot.

"First, gauge his interest by circling his back door softly with your finger while in a missionary or side-by-side position."

You'd have to reach for this area of his bady to touch his G-spot. It may be difficult since the two of you are stretched out. Missionary style.

And he may not like it, but if he does, let him say what else he may want going up there. Ask him. . . .

"Next, ask him whether you can insert your finger. If he gives you the go-ahead, dab on lube (make sure your nails are short). gently put your finger 2 inches inside his backstage entrance, and curl it in toward the front of his body until you feel a round bulb of tissue-- that's his prostate.

"Then gradually experiment with going faster and firmer," says Kerner.

What Manner of Man is He?

I see several things in question with this approach to stimulate him. First, that's the S-word, and the man with a desire to be be launched from his back door may have other actions that he craves up his sleeves.

Second, all the men I know would resoundly reject this approach. They'd even reject doctors' attempts to probe their anus in a prostatic procedure. That represents too much of what men finds unnatural.

Third, women wouldn't cut their nails just to stick their fingers up their men's anus. I think they'd opt for the moan zones outside their men's bodies.

Gays would like that, but straight men wouldn't. We've spent all our lives not to slip into an unnatural lifestyle; to allow women to push their fingers up our anus in search of the prostate would certainly bring us very close to what we've been avoiding for so long.

What manner of man is he who would allow his woman to stick fingers up his anus to massage his prostrate for a cheap thrill?

Where's His Other Moan Zones?

They're located on various parts of his body, easily accessible and not intrusive as probing his anus for his prostate. Skillfully stimulating them will put him over the top to pleasure you. A big payoff for you.