"The Egg Timer" is a game designed to teach you how your partner wants to have sex with you. She

first touches you the way she wants to be touched, and then you switch roles, and you touch her exactly this way. This is how the game is played:

For this sex-game you need an egg-timer (or a watch with a digital countdown timer), preferably one that does not make an awful lot of noise. You tell your partner she can do whatever she wants for three minutes, until the egg-timer rings. Then you do the same thing to her, also for three minutes.

You repeat this three minute cycle as often as you like. It is recommended that you do three to five cycles before you move to having sex and satisfying each other. Take your time to focus on playing this sex game, don’t rush it.

This game is as much an "attention game" as a "sex game". The more attention you pay to details, the more you will enjoy this game, and the closer it will bring you together. Things to pay attention to are for example:

-how fast or how slow does she move?

-how hard of how gentle does she touch you?

-where does she touch you, and in which way?

-how is she using her hands, lips, and tongue?

After paying attention to all these details, make mental notes of them, and when it is your turn, try to mirror them as good as you can. Be precise, do not fall into the trap of doing things the way you are used to doing them, but do them the way she has done them.

For couples who have shortened the time they spend on fore-play this is an excellent game to lengthen the fore-play again. But most of all: this is one of those games that teach you a lot about what your partner really wants.

We are all creatures of habit, and often this is good, but sometimes it is also good to break our habits. Playing games that get you out of your habits, and help you to get to know your partner better, are rewarding, exciting, and fun…