A special sex game is the play of decorating a room for sex together. Ideally you reserve a chamber just for having sex together. A basement or this big storage room you don’t really need. If this is not an option, you can make some adjustments to the bedroom for the same purpose. Here is some advice on how to do it:

Select the atmosphere the room should have. Romantic, erotic, kinky? Choose spring-colors and red for more romantic, red and black for more erotic, and dark colors for you BDSM dungeon, if you like.

You need a comfortable bed, which is not too soft and does not make any noises, this can be very distracting. A bed that is a bit harder then you would use for sleeping is ideal.

There should be a good heating, if you live in a cold climate. If you are too cold, you cannot relax, and if everything has to happen under the blankets, you are limiting yourself.

If you plan to spend a lot of time in your sex-room (I think you will, if you read this kind of stuff), then invest in a good music installation. Music helps to keep background noises out of the bedroom, and creates a private atmosphere.

Think about the light for the bedroom, far too many people have only harsh, functional light, instead of some romantic spots with light in different colors. Discuss this and choose the light the way you both like it.

Reserve a drawer specifically for your sexual materials, like condoms, lubricant, massage oil, tissues. For the most adventurous, this drawer can also contain the blindfolds, bondage materials, and the sex toys.

A very stimulating aspect of your sex-room can be an erotic library, with pornography, how-to manuals, classical sex-manuals and stimulating magazines. When you also like to watch erotic movies together, install a TV and DVD-player in the room, and start collecting DVDs.

Some final advice: keep the room clean and remove anything that is not erotic: do not use the room as a storage place and certainly not as a workplace. This is the room you want to go to when you want to focus on your erotic adventures…