Have you recently broke up with your spouse? Or is it that you are on the verge of breaking up? Everything seems to be turning upside down and nothing never seems to please your partner regardless of how hard you try?

You may feel miserable, distress, lonely and even heart broken, but you are not alone. Everyday thousands of relationships go down the drain, but do you really want your relationship to fall apart?

So how do you save your relationship?

One of the main reasons why some couples find it hard to mend a broken relationship is because they are filled with self pride. Now pride can cause you to do a lot of things that can worsen the situation.

1. Pride is not wanting to answer the phone when you know is your partner calling

2. Pride is trying everything in your power to get back at your partner- This involves:

• using hurtful words to your partner

• Bringing back things from the past that they have done wrong etc

Pride can do a whole lot more to separate you from your lover so lets not dwell on the bad but rather lets go to the solution.

Before you go any further, take a deep breathe, relax and reflect on some of the good times you and your partner had together, how he or she made you happy, the smiles that he or she always put on your face and the comfort you feel just to have your partner's arms around you.

Lets Find Out How To Mend Your Broken Relationship And Repeat All Those Good times

When most couples have a fight or just broke up, the first thing they tend to do is to make a phone call or send a text message to their partner. This may work sometime a more effective way is to get a pen and a clean sheet of paper and a sincere heart, an envelope and some postage stamps.

Think about it, how touching it would be to receive a hand written letter from you partner pouring out his or her heart to you for your forgiveness? A hand written letter will mean far more to your partner as you took the time out to on paper and mail it to them.

What you are about to hear is may not be what you want to hear, but it has worked thousands of times before and is still working. Here is what you should write:

Tell your partner that you do not deny any of your actions. You want then to know that you are very sincere and that everything you write is coming from the heart. Next you will let them know that you appreciate all the good things and times you have and spent together. Now here is the turning point:

You are going to let your partner know you agree to go on with the break up. What did you just read? Yes you did! Let your partner know that you are very sorry and you want them to be happy and if breaking up will make them happy then so be it.But this is not where it ends, this is just the start.