8) Listen

As hard as it might seem to listen during an argument, it can help both of you determine what you need to do. The other person could be quite clearly telling you what they need to fix the problem, but if you’re not listening, you’re not using the solution that has been presented to you.

9) Don’t leave

Another hard thing to do is stick it out in an argument, but it will make sure that you are finishing what you have started. Even if you feel that you can’t take anymore, tell your partner that you have to collect yourself for a moment, but that you will be back to finish the discussion.

10) Be respectful

When you want the argument to be a learning experience instead of a fight, you will want to show your respect of the other person. Pay attention, ask questions as needed, make eye contact, and be calm. Together, you can work through whatever you are dealing with.

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