Flirting has become incredibly important in today’s society. In the 19th century, marriages and relationships were forced or arranged by family and there was no need for flirting. By the 1980’s everything changed. Not only was it 100 percent the responsibility of an individual to find relationships, but it became crucial that men know how to flirt with women.

Some men took on this knew challenge and started looking for flirting tips while some just took the examples from their parents and peers and used those to attract women. What did become clear in the 20th century was that men needed to know how to flirt with women, and that it’s much different than what the ordinary man thinks is flirting.

Most importantly, men are not born knowing how to flirt and it’s a subject that’s evolving and changing throughout time. Right now, I’m going to share the top 5 flirting tips that have been proven to work in the 20th century. Every man that applies these flirting tips will see better results with women.

Flirting is the first step in any relationship or interaction with a woman, and it cannot be skipped. In fact, it’s the most important step! It’s what starts the fire and creates the attraction. It is the step that defines a man’s success with women. So let’s jump into the top 5 flirting tips for men:

Flirting Tips #1 - Make Physical Contact

Physical interaction has a huge impact on a woman’s internal mechanics. She is very aware of touch and if it’s done in a non-threatening way she will be more drawn to you.

Once you initiate touch, make sure to let her touch you back to gauge her level of interest. If she responds to your touch, that’s a good indicator that she feels you are safe and that she is interested in you.

Flirting Tips #2 - Leave on a high – get her laughing

Your ending is the most important part in a conversation. It’s like when you take clay and mold it, but the only thing that really makes a long-term impact is what that clay ends off hardening into.

Let’s say you’re planning on meeting up with a girl. What you don’t want to do is end off a conversation with, "ya we will see you then, bye." You would be a lot more successful if you ended it off with, "Yeah just try not to embarrass me." or "Don’t forget to paint your toe nails." or "This is where you say you can’t wait to see me and hope you can keep your hands to yourself." It creates a lot more excitement in her to want to meet up with you or just interact with you again.

Flirting Tips #3 - Qualify, Qualify, Qualify

Qualifying is not easy for men. Men seemed to be affected by a good looking woman and then go into this mood of wanting to please her in any way they can. They basically sell themselves until they present a deal that costs the woman nothing. If it costs the woman nothing to have you or lose you, then you can imagine what kind of value that gives her. Don’t lose your value - that’s what is making her want you. The best way to maintain your value is by qualifying.

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