Most people need to think that flirting only occurs when 2 people have meet each other and have not yet established a relationship. This is incorrect and it is this sort of idea that plays a part in the ending of a relationship.

A relationships ends in most cases where one person does not feel that flutter of the heart that you do when you first meet. It is this heart flutter that drives us to be with the person we have met and without this feeling, we have no reason to stay.

If you are in a relationship you need to ask yourself. Are you actions making your partners heart flutter. In most cases the answer will be no. People tend to settle into a routine when they are in a relationship. Things are the same day to day, week to week.

So how do you make sure that your partners heart flutters and that they continue to have feelings for you? You need to flirt with them.

Flirting is they way that people say to each other that they have feelings of love or lust. This act of flirting makes things so much easier than trying to say "I Love You" for the first time. After a while the act of saying I love you wears off. It is one thing to hear it, but another to experience it. Flirt with the person you love and never stop.

After getting a date do not think that flirting now you are through with flirting. Actually, this is when the real fun and nice flirting sets in. Flirting continues everywhere. Even people who are married flirt once in a while even when they have children. Flirting is one of the fun things that you can do with your mate or with someone else. According to some scientist, the human race could have been extinct if no one dared to flirt. Flirting and dating goes hand in hand. If you flirt with a person and he or she flirts with you, you could be on your way to finding that perfect person you were looking for. Just like when you were flirting before you got the date, the flirting rules are almost the same.

So how do you flirt? Well it comes down to making a connection. You need to have the correct body language and make a physical connection. Read more about this in my "How to flirt" article.