You want to learn to talk dirty to your lover but you don’t know what to say? While you don’t want to sound trashy you need to choose your words carefully. Think along the lines of love not lust when you’re looking for the right words.

You need to realize that if you talk to your lover during sex chances are you already talk dirty to him. Your little moans and groans are a form of talking dirty as are the compliments you pay him. As well as the little words of encouragement and the "I love that" or a "little to the left" these may not seem like you’re talking dirty to your lover but in a sense you are.

If the above examples are not quite what you had in mind for dirty talk then you can easily learn how to accomplish the art of talking dirty. Just follow the few simple steps below.

Obviously talking dirty is a new concept for you so choose a few words or phrases and practice them. Yes, I said practice them, after all practice makes perfect.

Try these two examples it’s best to stand in front of a mirror when you practice so you can see your facial expressions if you look like you just eat a bug then you’ll need to work on your facial expressions as well.

Start out with simple statements like "Oh that feels so good!" Try changing your voice and a few times and see which one sounds the best.

With each voice change you will notice your facial expression will also change, remember you don’t want to look like someone just stepped on your foot so be sure your facial expression coincides with your comment.

Once you have mastered the simple ones try a more provocative one and be sure to try and change your voice to fit the tone of the statement.

If talking dirty is something your lover does not expect to hear from you he will be extremely turned on and the new element of your sex life will certainly intensify it.