Tips on Dating Russian Women

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  • Author Michiel Van Kets
  • Published December 27, 2008
  • Word count 804

Dating a Russian woman is not so very different to dating a woman in your own country. They want to be treated with respect and kindness, do these simple things and you will be half-way there. Russian women are beautiful and see friends and family as important things in life, if you are serious about finding a bride from Russia then here are a couple of tips you might find useful.

Russian women appreciate men who take care of themselves and their appearance and look good. This doesn’t mean you have to be drop dead gorgeous or packed with muscles, but you do need to show that you take care in your appearance. A well cut hairstyle and clean, stylish clothes will make a big impression and will ensure you receive the interest you want.

You should be careful if a Russian woman asks any money from you. They are very independent and to ask for money is a shameful thing to do, so if one of the women you are corresponding with in Russia does ask, then be very careful. Obviously if you have known each other for a lengthy period of time and you feel the need is genuine, then it is your choice. Judge the situation with care before lending any money. If you on the other hand just met a woman and she’s already asking for a large amount of money from you, use your common sense.

When dating a Russian woman always try to be as honest with her as you can. More so with an overseas relationship as you have to trust each other as you are not there to see what the truth actually is. If you start off telling her lies or even exaggerating you assets or looks, she is likely to either see through you or eventually find out the truth and end the relationship. Russian women are in many cases very intelligent and educated and looking for a steady and honest partner to build a family with, if she finds out that you have been lying to her then the trust is broken and trust is a very important aspect to Russian relationships. Women from Russia are also very loyal and will expect the same thing from their partner.

When writing letters to your Russian lady be aware that English is not her first language and write accordingly. Although many Russian girls are educated and can speak English, there are many that don’t and written skills might not be as proficient. When writing your letters, you should use a ‘language’ that are common and easy to understand. When she writes back to you then you will be able to see her level of English. If you know her English to be very basic then it is advised to have your letters translated into Russian before sending them.

For the first few times you write keep your letters casual and don’t rush and declare that she’s the love of your life! The result of that might be that you scare her off. It will take time for two persons to get to know each other and you should see if you are compatible before displaying any affection. Also remember to ask her about herself and her family, background, work, etc. If you only write about yourself she will get the impression that you are not that interested in her.

A good thing would be to learn something about Russian women and the culture of this vast country. Every culture has its individual traditions and beliefs and you should be aware of these so as not to make any fatal mistakes or something that could cause upset. Finding out a little information won’t harm and she will see that you are serious about learning something of her culture and country.

If you decide to go to Russia and to meet the woman you have been corresponding with, there are various customs you should know about and respect, this will be much appreciated. The Ukrainians and Russians are welcoming and friendly people and will most certainly make you feel a very special guest. They are sure to lay out a feast for you and perhaps even give you gifts. Take something to show them you appreciate their invitation; similar to other countries it is customary to take a bottle of wine or even flowers. Remember, if having dinner, turning down food may be seen as rude and be careful of complimenting a host's belongings, as they may then try to offer them to you.

There are dating and matchmaking services to be found online that can arrange for you to correspond with Russian women. They can also give you any help or advice concerning Russia and The Ukraine and translation services.

Michiel Van Kets Provides article services for Mark De Schutter who works for Russian Dating Live, which is a website offering dating and Matchmaking services, specializing in Russian and Ukrainian Women. To get in contact with Russian women and to experience Russian matchmaking, visit the website.

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