It is indeed a bitter feeling after the breakup; that you have somewhat lost the one that you care for the most; you have missed the good old times that you spend with him/her. You want to relive the past with your ex yet again and build a better future with your ex. So how should you get your ex back? There are some key pointers that I will now impart you with and with that, I promise you that you will be getting back with your ex very soon!

1. Give yourself time and space

I always preach that it is important to give yourself at any moment the time and space. Forget about calling him/her straight to beg for a second chance as my advice is that is the last thing that you should do - you are not only giving your ex more pressure but also demeaning yourself at the same time. Instead, use this opportunity with the space and time that you have to reflect on the relationship. Think about what have gone wrong. Think about what could have been done. Try to get your answers to these questions first before taking any further actions that you may have. A must-know if you want to get your ex back!

2. Meet up with your social circle

Please go out there and socialise. Breakups do not signify the end of your life. Life still goes on and there are many people out there who are concerned about you. I do not think you want to fail them right? Chatting with your friends also helps to relieve you from the pain that you might be suffering faster as you are able to share your feelings. A must-know if you want to get your ex back!

3. Call your ex out for a casual talk

Yes, I would encourage you to do so after you have gone through my first two points that I have presented to you. The pre-requisite however is that you should be (or if not, appear to be) as composed as possible in front of your ex if you do intend to ask him/her out. Avoid the breakup issue for the moment and just initiate some casual conversation with your ex. After you feel that your ex is more relaxed with you, then you can start to plan your next steps. A must-know if you want to get your ex back!

Do you want your ex back? Do you want to get your ex back? How are you going to get your ex back? Learning how to get your ex back is not some rocket science; it is all possible if you know how! In the article, I have gone through a systematic plan which lays the foundation for you to learn how to get your ex back.