Why Guys Dump Girls - The Eye Opening Truth

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  • Author Rohail Rizvi
  • Published January 13, 2009
  • Word count 482

You may have been left stranded by your boyfriend and now you're wondering why guys dump girls. Well there are several reasons why guys dump girls and I'll go over these specific reasons as well as how to avoid ever being dumped by a guy again.

Why Guys Dump Girls

The girl is too nice. Guys won't appreciate a girl who lets them walk all over them. They would much rather like a girl who has the confidence to stand up for what she believes in and let him know what she feels. If a guy is in a relationship in which there is never a fight between the guy and the girl after six months of dating, it usually means that one person or the other in the relationship is letting the other walk all over them. No one appreciates that, and pretty soon the guy will seek more of a challenge and let you off the hook.

He feels guilty about the girl liking him more than he likes her. Whether it's out of fear or emotional unavailability, a guy will feel fear about leaving the girl to be miserable if he breaks up with her later on in the relationship if he knew earlier that she was more into him than he was into her. In order to remove the feeling of guilt, a guy will often times break up with the girl.

He wasn't ready for settling down and still wanted to explore. The truth of the matter is that most guys won't settle down until they feel like it's exactly the right time in their life, which means they have a good paying career, a place to live, and very likely when their friends are getting married off as well. However, that doesn't mean that it's impossible to get a guy to stay with you, just because he isn't ready to give you a ring.

The grass is always greener on the other side. Guys are always looking out for the best opportunity, or in other words, the best woman for them. This is true even if the best woman for them is sitting right in front of them, because everything just seems so much better on the other side. However, sometimes all it takes is a little powerful realization to get a guy to truly appreciate and realize what he has in front of him.

Despite these reasons, it is very possible to get a guy who is thinking about leaving you or has left you to have a sudden shift in thinking and want to be with you again. All it takes is a well-thought out plan and some powerful psychological tactics that use the power of reverse psychology and jealousy to have him want to be with you a very long time.

Now that you know why guys dump girls, do something about it.

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vain
vain · 15 years ago
UM..YEAH THIS REALLY DIDNT HELP FOR MUCH AT ALL..IM IN A RELATIONSHIP THAT..IS SLOWLY FADEING FOR ONE REASON HE GETS MAD CUZ I HUG OTHER PPL SUCH AS TALKING TO OTHER GIRLS/GUYS WHILE HE TALKS TO OTHER AND DOES WHAT I CANT" THIS REALLY..AHH I NEED ADVICE SO BADLY IN ANYONE CAN HELP ME PLEASE REACH ME AT MY MYSPACE OR YAHOO.. ERIOS914@YAHOO.COM

urjitharraaj
urjitharraaj · 15 years ago
hi readers........i think the title itself is wrong....i think its should be the other way around.i mean it should be "why girls dump guys".yes...thats what happening nowadays.may be this title suits perfectly if it is ten years back.yes im a victim of love.......but i dont have beards and i dont get drunked or i dont smoke either.but the pain is still pain.i cant tell anyone.....my friends or parents or my bro ............because i dont want to commit others in my saddness....whatever it is life must go on.......so guys please be carefull...........use my policy:highway policy............go forward never think about getting out of the way.but if your girlfriend start to show hwer bad side...thats the time for u to take shortcut