Getting dumped by a girl is one of the most awful, ego-wounding episodes a guy goes through and leaves him wondering why girls dump guys. When guys are asked why they think they were dumped most of the time it is painfully obvious that they are wrong in their assumption as to why they got dumped.

The True Reasons Why Girls Dump Guys

Guys get too clingy. No one appreciates it when they are encroached in their space. Would you like it if your girl was calling you and seeing you twenty times a day? I wouldn't think so. This kind of clingy behavior makes her resent the guy. The fact of the matter is that even though she wants you to like her, she really doesn't want to be the most important thing in the world to you. She would much rather have you own your own social life and life ambitions than to live through hers.

Not being in it for the long term. She knows you are not being sincere if you say you want to be with her, but in actuality still have fantasies about being single and a player. Either that or you ignore her questions about the long term and don't have a clear answer as to where you want the two of you to stand. Either of these are both issues of commitment that a girl can sense on you whether you are trying to hide the truth or avoid it.

They weren't man enough. Everything became about her and the guy didn't take enough leadership. She wants the guy to guide her, but the guy just didn't seem to have the guts to at the moment because he was afraid she wouldn't like his decision. Girls expect guys to be able to lead them to the best possible decision and if you are afraid in your own ability to make a decision, she won't trust you and that is a major attraction killer and a huge reason why girls dump guys.

Fortunately, none of these reasons mean the final end to a relationship, because there are things a guy can do to make a girl rethink being with him again by simply reversing his behavior as well as by using psychological tactics to make her realize that she overwhelmingly does want to be with you.

Did you get a better idea of why girls dump guys? If your girl dumped you, don't just sit back at let her be "the one that got away." There are things you can do right now to get her back.