Dating Asian Women

Social IssuesDating

  • Author Jack Powers
  • Published January 17, 2009
  • Word count 470

When you are dating a woman from a different culture than your own, it's almost inevitably that the two of you will run into cultural differences that can lead to breakups if not handled correctly.

What is worse, often you and your date will be equally confused as to why things didn't go as planned.

That's why it's a good idea to be prepared and know a bit about her culture first hand.

Now, it is of course not fair to do an article on Asian women as one group, as there is many differences across countries and regions, but some things are similar compared to the rest of the world.

Here is some tips on what to do and what not to do when dating an Asian woman:

Do be strong and assertive

In these times, the softer, caring ideal man, has had a run in the west. But being considerate and sharing decisions when dating an Asian woman will mostly not be good. Traditional Asian women are raised to be very feminine and passive in their behaviour. This doesn't mean they do not know how to get their way, but they are raised to look for a man that can show leadership. Some men react to Asian women's femininity by acting feminine themselves, and that is a mistake. Asian women like most women want a strong, assertive man.

Do be respectful of her culture

While you might expect your date to show interest in your culture also, you shouldn't go on and on about how some ways are better than others or why one way of thinking is better than another. If you put down her culture to much, she will wonder why you even want to go out with her.

Do show your best side

When dating a woman of a different culture or race, she will likely have some positive and negative stereotypes about your race and background. Try to emulate the positive rolemodel and not the negative one. Find out which is which by asking open ended questions.

Don't disrespect her family

Should be a no-brainer, but family is a lot more important in Asia. It is the basis on which society is built. Don't joke about her family.

Don't touch her too intimate in public

Asian cultures frown on public displays of affection. This means anything above hand holding. Trying to kiss her in public will likely lead to a turned cheek, even if she wants to kiss you back.

Don't think she is all that different

Just because she has a different background doesn't mean she is from another planet. She is still a woman and a person. User your common sense.

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