The days and weeks after your man breaks up with you can be a very difficult time for you. You probably feel like you aren't yourself and you seem to be walking round in a daze. Life seems to have lost all meaning without him in it. Maybe you want to get your guy back.

Getting back with your guy after they've broken up with you can be a difficult task, but not impossible. For their own reasons, your guy decided he didn't want to try and work things out. He simply ended it. It's easier to work things out while you are still together; as opposed to after it's ended.

With that being said, you can get your guy back after a break up if you really want to. The most important decision you have to make is that you do want to get your guy back. Make certain your motives for getting your guy back are the right ones for you. Don't try to get your guy back just for the sake of getting him back. Make sure the reasons are good reasons to get back together.

The second most important point to realize here is that sometimes it works in getting him back, and sometimes it doesn't. A lot of people can make up and move on, often times with a stronger relationship. Others, they can't seem to rekindle the magic. If you don't succeed you will know you gave it your best shot.

If you decide to get your guy back you must get your head right, keep your emotions under control. This is very important. Guys are reluctant to be around women when their emotions are running wild. If you try to contact him while your emotions are not under control you can run the risk of damaging your chances of getting him back even more. He may be starting to miss you and think about you a bit more, but you contact him in an emotional state and he then starts to think that breaking up was the right idea.

Instead of constantly worrying what he's doing and feeling sad that you aren't part of his life, try to start living your life again. You have to show him that you are grown up and can handle the breakup. Keep up with your normal day to day routines. Do your hair nice, wear makeup and clothes that make you feel confident about your self. Go out with friends. And possibly even go on a casual date.

If you are living your life and not pestering him you will have a better chance of getting your guy back. If you don't pester him with calls, texts and emails you will find that he will eventually get in touch with you.

When he does, keep it short and to the point. Don't show your emotions. Tell him how you've been busy with your life. Tell him in a matter of fact way. This will confuse the hell out of him. If he asks to see you again make sure you look great. Keep any physical contact to a minimum, no touching and no kissing. Before you go, give him a casual hug or simply touch his arm. This will drive your guy crazy. From this point getting your guy back should be plain sailing. Just remember to take it slow.

You should see now that you can get your guy back, you just need to get those emotions in check. Live your life to the full. Always look your best. If you look good you will feel good. Give him space and the chances are he will want to see you again. And the bonus is that he will get in touch with you. When he does get in touch, keep it brief and tease him a little. If you make him work for your affections your relationship will be stronger than ever.