3. STANDING OUT It’s funny how much you can learn about out mating rituals by observing our good friends in the animal kingdom. Although this next principle varies from specie to specie, every organism that mates is attracted to it’s counter part for certain reasons. For example, the male peacock with brightest and most robust feathers will get more peacock booty. Same goes for the duck, or the rooster with the largest RED thingy. Now I’m not saying go out dressing like Dennis Rodman, but wearing a little flare next time you go out will help you stand out from the crowd. Because let’s face, most clubs you go don’t have the best ratio. It’s usually a bunch of horny guys battling and competing with each other for the same limited resource – the hot single girl. I can’t really tell you what exactly to wear, but I can tell you that no matter how outrageous it is, if you have the balls to wear it, and be confident – you’ll definitely stand out from that sea of douche bags.
2. SMILING I was very skeptical about this tip until I actually went into the trenches and tried it myself. The principle is really simple – Whenever you enter a room, come in as though you’re the king of the world and that you’re feeling like a million bucks. Studied have shown that in a crowded room, such as a bar, or a club, the people that are most noticed are the one’s who just come in. However, the way most brains work is that if some object is relatively similar to all surrounding objects then that thing will probably go unnoticed. So I took to the streets with some of my fellow PLEASURELOUNGE.NET editors and hit up some local hot spots to see what exactly us guys look like in action, and I have to say, Derek Zoolander would be very threatened at all the Blue Steel wannabees walking in. It was very easy to see how a smile and maybe even a chuckle could make you more desirable in to woman in under 30 seconds.
1. THE FIRST MOVE This is by far the most important thing every man should know and live by. Even if you have all four of the previous tips perfected, without this you are just not in control. I like to call it the 3 SECOND RULE. Man’s worst enemy in bars and clubs aren’t other men, or bitchy pre-menstrual woman – Man’s worst enemy is himself and his own insecurities. We all have them, and chances are we will always have them. The 3 SECOND RULE was designed to bypass anyone’s insecurity and probably the easiest tip on this list. So with out further adieu – The next time you see a woman you’re attracted to and want to approach, you have exactly 3 seconds to make your move before your insecurities will talk to you out of it. Now I’m not a shrink, and I’m not even going to touch on the subject of what causes insecurity in men and blah blah blah…The truth is I don’t care. Because if you make your move in 3 seconds or less, you never have to let those insecurities affect you. That’s all there is too it. From the very first moment you lay your eyes on that beautiful blonde with perfect breasts and Angelina Jolie lips, you better get your ass in gear because after 3 seconds, I guarantee you that you’ll just another one of those guys, standing up against the bar drooling all over yourself wondering what could have been.
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