You are a week away from giving a big presentation to a crowd. It's a whole week away, but the only thing you can think of is a room full of people. You can't even concentrate on anything else except that upcoming presentation you have to give. You hope that you get into a car accident on the way to giving your speech so you don't have to present it in front of all those people. That's ridiculous. Listen to yourself - you would rather be in physical harm than give a presentation to a crowd of people?
Sadly, this is the way most people think. They don't even care how well their point comes across or the overall effect the presentation will have - all they dwell on is that room full of people.
Just the thought of standing in front of so many people makes you sweat and feel nothing but anxiety. Here is some really good advice on how to kick that fear to the curb.
For most people it doesn't even matter how many people they are speaking in front of. It could be 5 people, or 5 million, yet the feeling of terror would be the same. You may ask why you feel this way. It's quite possible that someone you know very well can give a speech that hasn't been prepared at all and never care or worry about being in front of a crowd. People have different reasons for their phobias and fears. All that matters is how you control your fear and eliminate it.
The best advice , and it is a known fact, that to eliminate a fear, you have to feel the fear. If you were to throw yourself out there and give a speech to a larger crowd everyday, you would eventually lose your fear - because you would realize time and time again that nothing bad happens. You would feel bored. Where there's boredom, there's no fear.
For most people, a solution as such simply could not be possible. It is in this case, that one of the best ideas for reducing fear public speaking is to evaluate your situation. You are going to be speaking in front of an audience. What's the worst that could happen? When you are amongst a crowd, listening to a speaker, do you start laughing at him when he makes a mistake or stutters? Probably not. So why would anyone do that to you? Remind yourself that you've seen other people speak publicly, and nothing horrible happened to them. Keep asking yourself what the worst scenario would be - and chances are it'll be unrealistic, or won't be that bad.
Hopefully these tips and advice will be able to help you kick your fears - and help you speak publicly with more ease.
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