The fact is that sex makes almost a hundred percent of the way we socialize with the opposite gender. You approach a woman because your subconscious mind has determined that you can make a good union in bed, and if there is anything like a relationship which will follow, then it is good for you. What many people call chemistry in dating is a result of the sexual attractiveness which each our minds translate as something working between us.
Many people disregard lust as being the need and urge to have sex with each other, which is devoid of anything in between. I tend to differ, more so when it comes to mature women. Dating a mature woman, not with the idea of forging long lasting relationships but for a lay is not as detrimental as many might want to make it seem. The first thing that you must have in mind is that the woman is not a small girl that you are trying to take an advantage of. This is a mature woman with many years in the road of life and she has seen it all. In fact, many people take it that she is the one taking advantage of you, using you as a sexual tool which at one time must be laid aside.
If you are dating a mature woman for a lay or you have a relationship of a sexual nature, you must realize that the relationship will not be going anywhere, in terms of long lasting relationships. This is not what is in her mind, or even yours, when you are dating. The fact is that she might be in a dysfunctional relationship that has lacked in sexual satisfaction that is the essence of any relationship.
It is good who established sex when He brought Eve to Adam, and the first farmer's life was totally confused. God made sex to strengthen the bond between man and woman, so that their relationship can last forever. This is the reason that a mature woman will be dating a younger man to fill the gap of sexual pleasure that her man is not able to offer her. You must not let your emotions get in the scheme of things as you get to know each other, because you are not her choice of a life partner, you are just a vessel towards some goal.
At one time in the relationship she will leave you, or you will leave her. It does not really matter who leaves who, the fact is that you should make the dating experience as it can be. Through your union you will learn a lot. You will learn that the single most relationship destroyer is the lack of sexual favors, and if you will not provide in your relationship you will face the same problem of a woman seeking gratification from other quarters. Some relationships like this are better done in confidence; otherwise, you might come out as a misplaced young man who does not know what he is doing.