When you come home from a stressful day at work and you are faced with a family that has also had a bad day, how do you cope with the situation without pulling your hair out and creating turmoil within the family unit? Quite often, you are probably unaware of what the underlying foundation is that instigated the issue in the first place. Most of the time, your issues are swept under the carpet, they are placed in the too-hard basket, because you think you can’t cope with it and hope that it will go away. But it won’t. Over time, these collective unfinished issues do surface to explode into your face again. All unresolved issues seek resolution, but by the time you are ready and able to face and address that issue, you have no idea of what the energy structure or the root cause of the issue was about in the first place. It may have happened such a long time ago that you have no conscious remembrance of it and the original cause may not even look like its outcome.

To address conflicting issues can be broken down into 2 main categories.

1. Analogy of Watching a Movie
2. Stand Back and Observe

Let’s take a look at each individual category:

1. Analogy of Watching a Movie - A Who Am I Formula can easily give you clues to what your original issue may be about, beyond the comprehension of the mind. Like everything, it is up to you to choose what applies to you, but the main scenario is that when you are faced with a conflicting drama situation; just treat it like you are watching a mystery movie on TV. You are the audience, you observe each actor in the play and you know what role each actor is acting out from their script. The characters in the movie play the game of being unaware of what the other characters are doing or what they are cooking up behind the scenes. These individual characters are unaware of what motives and what attention seeking pay-off’s and what manipulation games are being played. But you do. It is because you are the audience. You are observing what each character is doing and why they are doing it and what they are going to get out of it.

2. Stand Back and Observe - In your life, the motives or energy structures that are cooking behind the scenes are the underpinning or underlying foundation, the pothole scenarios that are sabotaging how you choose to act out your game with addressing your conflicting issue? So, what do you do when these devastating conflicting issues arise? Just stand back, like the audience, without judgement and agendas to observe the incident on all dualistic sides and without taking sides. Avoid focusing on what is actually happening in the foreground for that is just the manifested outcome experience, which may not appear to be identified and connected to the purpose that is occurring behind the scene. But it is.

The energy structure of what is happening behind the scene and what your 5 senses are portraying may not appear to look the same. The bigger picture is to observe beyond what your mind already knows. The mind only knows of your past events and what your 5 senses perceives and what you are emotionally feeling at the time. When you observe and go beyond what is actually happening, you will discover that ‘not all things are what they seem – there is more than what is seen.’