How to win my boyfriend back when he doesn't even respond to me? I have tried my best to save my relationship but nothing seems to work. I tried calling him countless time but he never picks up my phone call. I send him text messages but he doesn't reply either.

I have tried my best but I still can't win him back. How to win my boyfriend back? What should I do?

Well, if you are reading this article, you are probably trying to figure out how to win back your ex boyfriend too. Perhaps, you are facing some what similar situation to the one described above.

You have tried everything that you have think of but you just can't get any positive response from your boyfriend. Why is that so?

Well, perhaps what I am going to tell you may sound a bit counter intuitive, so it may be hard for you to accept. The truth is, if you have tried everything that you know of but still couldn't get him to response, chances are you are trying too hard.

Instead, you are advised to back off a little bit. What do I mean by that? Well, calling too often and sending too many text messages are actually acts of desperation. Therefore, the harder you try, the more you are going to push your ex boyfriend away. This is not the way to do things if you are wondering "how to win my boyfriend back".

This is probably the reason why a lot of things that you have done do not work. This is just human nature. People generally tend to avoid desperation.

Of course, you don't want to blame yourself if you have already made those mistakes. This is not your fault. You did not know any better. Now that you know these are the things you shouldn't do, you can stop doing them so that you will not risk pushing your ex boyfriend further away.