It’s a tale almost as old as time: Boy meets girl. Boy and girl fall head over heels for each other, and the "honeymoon phase", as its often dubbed, begins. During this initial phase food tastes sweeter, the air seems fresher, and the fires of passion burn uncontrollably. You become this weirdo that laughs at jokes that aren’t funny and walks around like you have just woken up from a 2 year slumber. Yes, we have all been there before and wish, at some stage, that feeling could last forever. Unfortunately, more often than not those flames burn out, with time, leaving nothing behind but smoldering cinders and one question. Where did I go wrong?

Has your relationship reached this point of the story? If you answered yes, don’t worry, you share your answer with 72% of Australian women in steady relationships; But like every problem there is always a solution. You don’t have to do what most people do, and accept that once the passion is gone it will never return. There are certain measures that can be taken to ensure a happy ending.

Truth be told, regardless of how strong the chemistry in a relationship appears to be, at some point or another couples usually hit the proverbial brick wall in their love life. There are a number of factors that contribute to this problem primarily being:

* - stress from work,
* - money worries
* - repetitious or monotonous lovemaking,
* - accumulated anger or resentment from previous fights
* - television in the bedroom
* - and/or lack of time.

The mistake that most people make is to submit to these demons; which is what they are. They are the enemy! The difference between a dying love and a blossoming romance is the action that is taken to fend off what most regard as the inevitable. Well I’ve got news for all of you. It does not have to be this way. My wife Samantha and I are living proof of that.

The first thing that you need to realize is that it is not a long and difficult journey to achieving a great love life. There are two very simple solutions. Laughter and change.

I have been asked this question a thousand times and I never get tired of answering it. "How do I spice up my love life and really get his heart pumping?" The first thing that always comes out of my mouth is "start with sexy costumes!", or as I refer to them as, "love lifesavers". It might seem like a simple answer, but you would be shocked at how many couples aren’t doing it yet. Even a relatively modest costume can create massive change to your romantic life. Just remember that there is a very fine line between ordinary and extraordinary.

If you have never engaged in intimate role-play or used props in lovemaking before, getting started can prove a bit intimidating and even awkward. The key to overcoming this fear is to release your inhibitions and open up to the idea of exploring your deepest fantasies. Should you feel uncomfortable? Of course not! It’s healthy, perfectly normal, and most importantly, a whole lot of fun to let your imagination run wild.

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