New Year Resolutions come and go, but an idea turned into an intention can become a powerful magnet that draws you toward what you truly desire. So what is the difference between a resolution and an intention? How do you create an intention that inspires you rather than repels you away?

A resolution is decision that has been made and determined, and there seems to be no give or take. An intention is a purpose, and is a guide toward a planned action. A purpose can go in different directions and has some give or take. An intention opens us to a world of possibilities and a will to help ourselves.

In my opinion what has happened in our society is that Resolutions have often zeroed in on a perceived negative aspect of ourselves. 'I want to lose weight; therefore, no more chocolate chip cookies or other desserts.'

An intention explores what’s behind the thought or feeling. 'I crave desserts when I am feeling stressed or scared. I will set an intention to become conscious of the craving and allow my feelings to arise and pass rather than fill up on extra calories.'

Also, with intentions you want to praise yourself with the effort you are giving vs. focusing on what you are doing wrong.

Sue, who participated in my latest class Self-Care: Before Sit-Ups! 10-Week Transformation, shared her thoughts about changing her mindset: "I began thinking less about my weight and more about keeping my mind and body healthy. It was this mental shift that helped me achieve what became a foundation to keep me moving forward with positive behavior and without putting the focus on my weight -- and I started to lose weight."

Here are 6 steps to help you get inspired and excited about your intentions.

1. Create Space. When you can eliminate or reduce the time you spend on values that no longer serve you, you will create pockets of time and space to accomplish the action steps towards your intention.

2. Consider Your Values. What are you spending time on that may not be serving your core values? This is a great time of year to take a look within and make a list of what you would really like to say 'no' to -- and what you would desire to say 'yes' to. Who would you like to be this year? You see, doing and having are the result of what you are being. So live your core values and be true to yourself, and you will attract the necessary steps to shift toward your intention.

3. Be Inspired. Your intention should ignite, excite, and inspire you. So this week, set aside time to write in a journal and meditate. Mull over your typical resolutions. How do they make you feel? Anxious? Unsettled? Excited? Incomplete? Confident? Now contemplate how you would like to feel during the coming year. Is there any way you can reframe your results-orientated resolutions into something that will make this year’s journey more joyful and worthwhile and fill your needs?

Create a short sentence or phrase for your intention. Be careful not to set limitations based on fear. Example: 'May life bring me only happiness and joy this year.' Instead, consider 'May I be happy and open to what life brings me.' Instead of 'I want to lose weight this year,' consider 'May I be open to healthier ways to live my life.'

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