The question many guys ask is whether you can know his commitment to you, whether he is really interested in you. Many men approach flirt dimensions with true need on their part. They might be attracted to a female but the way they do it leaves many women not really convinced they are committed. The best way to know if the man really is into you might not be hard after all, but you need to know if it is the case, otherwise you might be having high hopes for nothing. Guys flirt with women in their own special way, and a lot depend on their individual personality. It is where you should start your evaluation.

Perhaps the hardest guys to flirt with are the shy ones, and they are really tough to crack most of the time. A shy guy has the inkling and audacity to look at you until you are out of his focal point, or until you turn around to face him, where his attention shifts to other areas. The thing is that you will feel his eyes weighing you down, as if they are slowly and secretly undressing you. When it comes to the eyes, they tell so much about a person and you can feel them on you even if you might not be looking at a person. It is hard to catch a shy guy watching you, but it is again not hard to know. It is all about timing, since their shyness don’t mean they are cowards, it is the beginning that is so hard for them.

To know when the shy guy is practicing his innate flirt moves on you, look at his movement, and the physical things he does. He might grab you in a play like way, slowly and sensuously touch your hair as he pokes you, and through the whole affair you might feel something deeper about it. It is not hard to feel it, since it is something about his touch that will awaken the thoughts of flirting. He might touch your hand, if you let him that is, since just a slight refusal on your part will throw him away. You can let him take your hand and even get closer to you, only if you like him, and you will know from the way he handles you and touches that he truly likes you. Any flirt move he tries might be very delicate, since the last thing he would want is to hurt or scare you.

The thing is that everything he does is geared at getting and drawing your attention to him, and he just doesn’t know how to do it without hurting you. If you have a mutual friend, he might go to him and enquire about you, saying it’s for his friend or just a matter of curiosity. He will be looking for all avenues to know the right way to attracting and drawing closer, and knowing you from your friends might be one of the things he will be doing. The best you can do is encourage him. He will be closer to you faster than you might think.