It is but natural that you feel great after a mind blowing date with a man of your dreams. But it is heart breaking when it ends as soon as it started or looks like it might end very soon. Many dates start off on a high but end up in drains. The reason for the attitude of men after the date is unpredictable. Every thing might have seen to be okay but then what happen?

He promised you he would call and so you are on a high thinking and waiting for his call every moment of your life. Time flies by and days roll on but no calls from him. You are confused and ask yourself several time, "will he call or not?" the confidence level which was very strong immediately after the date slowly subsides and reaches a zero level.

You loose your confidence and self esteem and start wondering what wrong you did during the date. Self blaming starts and as a result depression and frustration sets in.

Is getting a call so important?

Have you ever wondered why a man calling women is considered so important? A man might not be someone who likes to make calls often or he isn’t just the kind of guy who can express his love on a phone. But, why so much of anxiety over calls; Receiving a call from a man after their initial date makes a woman comfortable as she feels great and secured that the man likes her and adores her. She immediately starts fantasizing and builds castles about her relationship that is to unfold soon.

But when you look up this issue from a man’s shoes there isn’t much to predict about the date and the call. He considers it a normal procedure to date a woman and then call to decently admit that he had a good time. He never builds castles or even dreams about any kind of relationship. This great rift in the way a man and a woman think. This is the cause for many problems related to love, dating and relationships.

Men don’t understand why woman hype their simple actions and woman are oblivious about why men aren’t serious with their relationship. A casual call or a forgotten call thus becomes a big issue and so many doubts, fears and insecurity cloud a woman’s mind.

Balancing act

Life is all about balance and so women must try to strike a balance in their personal life. Too much expectations and over dependency on a man is always dangerous. Try to stand on your own feet, think independently and act smartly.

If a man likes a woman he can’t stay silent. He will call you at all cost. Present yourself in a best way during a date by trying to be what you are and don’t try to over do your presence.

Let your self esteem and confidence reflect in your actions and that itself is a great attraction for a man. Men like independent woman and they adore her for her individuality. So stop worrying about, "will he call or not", and relax.