Further, one woman can't have orgasm without a specific position, the other woman will desire another position, or request clitoris stimulation besides penis thrusting... Many fatiguing services asked from men! And if a serious and passionate relationship doesn't exist between partners, men are really exhausted in the bed.

Is it a natural error, an innate lack of harmony between men and women? If so what was the secret of great womanizers like Don Juan, Ximen Qing, Giacomo Casanova...

Let see some different type of early comers:

Type A: The worst! He doesn't even know he is an early comer. When he likes, he takes the woman under him and ejaculates. He doesn't care anything else! Woman's pleasures and orgasm! What is that? He hasn't heard anything about woman's orgasm!

Type B: The opportunist! He knows about woman's orgasm but act like he doesn't know. Same of the Type A, he pulls the woman under and he comes off, the only difference between type A is if by mistake or pain, woman makes a weak sound like "ah" he will suppose that she reached an orgasm, but for his comfort, he will never ask her the truth!

Type C: The lazy with crocodile tears! He knows his disorder, he is sad and wants to visit a doctor but he is ashamed or can't find the time to go! As foreplay he kisses and caresses her a little but he can't wait more and comes off. Sometimes he can't even find times to thrust his dick into her. He is sad, but life goes on!

Type D: The Lover! He is aware of his early ejaculation disorder but he also knows his partner's orgasm right! So, he will kiss and caress her at great length, give her a good sexual massage, or an intense stimulation as she likes, or oral love, and bring her to orgasm. Then he starts to make love for himself and he comes off. Because his partner reached orgasm before his quick ejaculation there is no trouble. Partners are both relaxed and happy!

That means, if a man is refined, elegant, understanding, clever... a GENTLEMAN, the early ejaculation is not an important issue on the way to happy sexual relationship. Man may visit a doctor and try to find the main reason behind this disorder, and get a treatment which is not very hard. But in the meantime he will be kind and not selfish, and will give her ultimate pleasures to achieve her orgasm!

An absolutely good sex for a woman is an average dick size, a foreplay at length with all stimulation techniques that she likes, long kisses and caresses, staying inside her long enough with many thrusting, knowing her favorite positions and giving her the best pleasures... not insisting on what you want, but understanding her and giving her what she needs to get her climax.

Remember that if she has achieved one orgasm in her entire life, she knows the best position, and an intelligent man never insists on a new position which may cause a lack of concentration, he will follow her orientation.

Finally, what is her responsibility for a harmonious and happy sexual relationship?

Women must talk and describe what they need or want clearly. Of course, talking to the boors will not produce a positive result instantly but intelligent and responsible men will understand and provide what you need. Do not imitate orgasm or do not keep silent and go to sleep... talk to your lover and kindly explain your wishes, if not you will lose your sexual desires in the time, and you won't even like to masturbate and get orgasm by yourself in the future!

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