When you’re looking to buy a plus size bra or panty it’s vitally important you get the right size, but when it comes to buying sexy plus size lingerie it's all about how it makes you feel! Right?

There's a couple of basics you have to cover first before you choose the piece you like best.

1. Know your size.

So often I come across ladies who believe they are a size 14, but really they are a size or 2 above that. It's not their fault though – it's those sales assistants in the skinny mini clothes shops that tell them they look great against their better judgements because they want to sell the item. Lets not even talk about the shop itself – someone tell me why it's so hard to get something nice in a bigger size than a 14. Moving on…

2. now your body type.

There are typically 7 body shape. Diamond, triangle, inverted triangle, hourglass, rectangle, oval, figure 8. However, there is only one rule whatever your shape – Flaunt the good bits and hide the bad bits. A plus size corset is great for a girl with bigger busts or broader waists, where a sexy plus size babydoll can do wonders for those wider hips.

Now for the exciting part – how to choose THE ONE.

3. What is the occasion?

Are you going on a naughty weekend or perhaps wanting to spice things up a little? In that case, may I suggest something in Red. Is it your honeymoon or perhaps you don't feel very daring today – well white of course, it's always a great choice. Planning a night on the town first? Why not get something sexy in black that can peek out a little from under your top?

4. Is it for you or for him?

Who are you really buying it for? If it's for you – get whatever you like of course. If it's for him, well perhaps you need to think about what he likes too and get something that will please you both. Boy's – if you're reading this – Get what SHE likes!

5. What already in your undies drawer?

We all love our little comfort zone don't we? But how about choosing something completely different than what you already have? Get a different colour, try a new style or add some fun with a plus size costume or two.

When buying your lingerie, always look for a sexy plus size lingerie store that has a size chart and a return policy.

Flaunt those curves!

Anita van Wyk

Oh So Curvy