When a relationship breaks up there can be many different circumstances to the situation. Were you paying enough attention to your girlfriend or did your work involve traveling and kept you away from home a lot. Or were you spending too much time with the boys. These are only a few of the reasons why your relationship broke up and the romance ended.
If she left you what were the reason she gave you? Take a good look at the situation and see if you can see any truth in her complains. You could ask some of your friends and family if they see any faults in your behaviors. Be willing to make some changes not just on a superficial level but make some serious decisions to change ways about yourself that doesnít work for you any more.
How can you adopt a better way in which you treat and care for other people? You know the thing about karma is that you get back no more than you give out, so think about it have you been loving enough towards your girlfriend or have you just taken her for granted.
Or could it be that you were the one who left her and now you regret your action. It happens that when you have had a close relationship with someone then there will always be something you miss about the person you use to be with.
If you want to get her back again then you have to be prepared to face up to the fact that you may have hurt her badly and she may not be willing to come running back into your arms straight away. You may have to figure out a way to mend her broken heart and you may have to be very creative in the way you approach things now.
Even if it was her that left you and you want her back you have to be prepared to give her some space and donít smother her. If you really care about her you will probably have to be patient with her for a while but let her know you are there for her if she needs you.
If the reason for your break up was that you drifted apart and you really want to have things back to the way it was when you first felt in love with each other then you might have to talk to her and tell her that you are prepared to do what it takes to spice up your relationship again. You will have to convince her that what you had together was something special.
The best way to handle this situation is for both of you to take a good look at yourselves and the mistakes you both made and realize that you canít do anything to change the other person but you can work on changing yourself to be a better person.When your girlfriend sees the changes in you then there is a good chance that you will get her back.