There are really two types of a woman you can be: one men love or one men leave. This article will give you some tips on how to become the woman a man will love for the rest of your life.
The first step to become the woman men love rather than the woman men leave is to make sure your man will love you the way you want to be loved. To do this you need to know what your man needs in your relationship and give it to him. Although on the surface this little tip seems so simple, it gets messed up more often than not.
You do not want to become a door mat. Don’t think that giving him what he wants means for you to become subservient. Men do not want a woman who does exactly what he wants all the time. A man wants a woman to have a mind of her own. At the same time, he wants a woman who will be his biggest fan.
Some women think that giving a man all the sex he wants and dress up in sexy lingerie this meets their man’s needs. If that is all your man needs, you might consider finding another man who has a little more depth to him.
It’s a misconception that all a man wants is sex. Of course sex plays a very important role in any relationship for men and women; however, sex shouldn’t be the only thing that keeps a relationship going. It isn’t a means to the end in a relationship. If a sexual relationship is all you have going with your man, your relationship will fall flat before too long.
Therefore, your relationship must be formed on more than physical intimacy in order to have a lasting bond. As you get older, sex will become less and less important. So if your relationship is based entirely on sex, what’s going to hold the relationship together when it begins to diminish or is gone altogether?
Actually the woman that a man leaves is the woman who tries too hard to be whatever the man wants her to be. Your man must feel special, loved and desired, but it won’t mean anything to him if he feels you aren’t sincere. If your man thinks you are simply complying to his whims, he will quickly get bored and move on to someone whom he thinks is more real.
With that said, you can choose to learn how to be the woman men love rather than the one men leave. The choice is yours. It’s entirely up to you. Keep your dignity and self-worth. Stand up for your who you truly are, but above all, show him that he is special, treat him like a king, and he will treat you as his queen. You, being the stronger of the species, can learn quickly enough what your man really wants, and then you give it to him.