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Getting back Together
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By: Susan Stays Email Article
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If you are wondering how can I be in the situation of saving a relationship or "how to get back with my ex-girlfriend", the first thing you have to do is to calm down and reflect things thoroughly, hopefully after having your mind cooled down. You must consider all your thoughts and feelings. Once you are ready with this, you can carry on with the actions. In this article, you will find out the process you have to go through in order to get back with your ex girlfriend.

Do you feel desperate and depressed because you want your girlfriend back? Do you really miss her with you heart? This behavior, the one you are going through, is quite normal and many people are suffering it at this very moment. It is indeed a tough time, but it is actually at this moment when you have got to be careful and act based on your thoughts and not on your feelings.

What you ought to do is take things in stride and step by step. I will teach you what has worked best for me when I tried to get back with my ex girlfriend.

Step 1:Ask yourself: Why do I want to get back with my ex girlfriend?.
Think about it. Furthermore, grab a sheet of paper and list all the reasons why you want to go back to your girlfriend. Please do not exert any pressure at this point, this is very important. Many times after writing your reasons you will realize that you do not want her back because you love her, but because it is a whim or you feel alone. If this sounds like you, get yourself organized with your life and move on. On the other side of the coin, if you really love and miss her, keep reading this article to understand how you can be in position of saving a relationship.

Step 2: Do you remember me having said that it is important to act based on reasons rather than on emotional impulses? You have got to stop going after your girlfriend, begging her, giving her gifts or trying to impress upon her. Stop now. This will cause the opposite effect and instead she will stay away from you. If you want to be saving a relationship, what you have to do is send her a letter or a short mail, telling her that you fully agree with the breakup of the relationship. Tell her you understand it perfectly. This is going to confuse her a little (but that is ok) and you will not have the pressure to beg her to get back together.

Step 3: Disappear for a while. This has two goals in mind: to test the waters and see if she misses you and to have time to get organized and get ready with a detailed action plan to get her come back to you. Keep a MINIMUM level of communication with your ex and this will cause a series of reactions and curiosity in her mind. "What is he doing?", "Why does not he call me?" "I am starting to miss him." It is important that you never close the door completely or say "Goodbye, I hope you do well with your life" because the idea is to be in position of saving a relationship and send the message that there is always that last resource of coming back together.

Step 4: You already did the most important steps. The 3 steps above are the basis of the strategy to win back your ex. What you ought to do now is to finish winning her heart back and have her again in your arms.

Did you know that 90% of all breakups can be placed in the position of "saving a relationship" status? All you need is a detailed action plan, and you will make your ex come back to you.

These are just the initial steps in winning your Ex back. If you would like to place yourself in the position of Saving a Relationship, learn more tips and advices at

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