When we look at happiness we need to start from within and look for goodness in others. Being happy is a state of mind and is influenced by our attitude and our attitude to others.
To be achieve true happiness and be really happy simply requires a change of outlook adopting positive thoughts and rejecting negative thoughts.
What is happiness?
The world is difficult, the life is full of problems, people are angry, irritative and negative… What to do with all these thoughts?
Almost everyone thinks about the things like this that at least once in his or her life.
Most people leave the situation as it is and only few people really find the ways to improve their lives and achieve happiness.
How do they manage to do it? Or it was just chance?
Let’s try to understand the reason and origin of their success and find ways we can be really happy.
First and foremost we should start with our mind.
Consciousness determines the being – and these are not just words. All your inner feelings and emotions directly correspond to what is happening to you and your life.
A simple example:
Every morning you go to the bathroom to take a shower or just to wash yourself. What are your first thoughts when you see yourself at the mirror? “Early getting up! I want to sleep! Going to work again! My face reflects the tiredness. I’m sick and tired of everything. When will the week-end come? Etc.”
The result:
Irritation, tiredness and dissatisfaction are the outcome of these thoughts.
All the events of the day will reflect this negative state of mind.
The way to work will be intolerable: unending traffic jams, crowds in metro and buses, angry people around.
Your job will be boring, your boss – a tyrant, your colleagues tedious, your every day dying talents…….. At home everything is the same: children, kitchen, television… Who wants to live in all these? How could we be really happy if the life is like that?
Happiness think positive
But there exist another way which is simple and straightforward and can help you face the day in a happy frame of mind and have positive thoughts It is believed that as all negative thoughts attract negative ones so all positive thoughts attract more positives.
More over, there exists an understanding of a fact that positive field attracts another positive field. And this is exactly what we are talking about.
If you are positive inside, if you are happy to accept the world as it is in its beauty, if you really like your life all the changes will come immediately.
First you should realize that the God you worship created you not for suffering and pain, but for happiness, creation and partnership, for you to love and to be loved.
Happiness some simple rules
To be specific let’s turn to the main rules which will help you to be changed.
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