|
Reasons Why Women Fall in Love with Older Men
If you are a man and you’re over 35 years old, if you are attracted by younger women but you are afraid of being rejected or not to be taken seriously, you will find out the real thing about this issue in this article.
Let’s state an irrefutable fact: most women over 25 and single are already disappointed by men of their age.
And their big problem is to find a mature man that can satisfy their needs.
Here is another fact: in most cases men reach their maturity level after the age of 30.
These women believe that older men won’t break their hearts the way younger men have done; they believe that an older man will have the commitment and the willingness required for a long term relationship.
Age indicates maturity, and decision making ability.
Many people believe couples with the same age don't respect each other.
Younger women, on the other hand, enjoy having someone take care of them and are attracted to an older person's accomplishments, economic stability and EMOTIONAL MATURITY.
Make sure you share similar life views and goals, despite your age difference.
Do you both appreciate each other's friends? Do you share the same principles when it comes to family?
So, an age difference of 7 - 15 years can lead to a really great relationship if both partners are willing to. That’s because we don't choose who we fall in love with, it simply happens
|
This article has been viewed 5491 times.
Rate Article
Rating: 4.6 / 5 stars - 9 vote(s).
Article Comments
 |
I'm in love with a man that is 21 years older than me! We both love the same things! He's about to retire from working all his life! How can we do this? Am I crazy? September 06, 2006 09:11:19 |
 Hopeless Says
|
I'm falling in love with someone 23 years older than i am....i mean already have! I'm 18 years old turning 19 in April and he will be turning 42 in the same month. I can't even explain how is all started, but he was my uncles best friend. Our relationship has become a wedge between my family. My disfuctional mother approves when i confront her but changes her mind when my uncle influences her that it's wrong. My uncle and boyfriend are room-mates and have been for years. They don't get along for the simple fact of my uncle uses a person for everything they have to offer than abuses them. My and my uncle don't get along and never really have, he doesn't have respect for me nor women and general. I really care about my boyfriend and our relationship has been great. He doesn't look his age and is incredibly fit and outgoing. He has a great sense of humour and can relate to many hardships i've been through. I know he wouldn't cheat, and i know he would do anything to be there for me. He has 2 children age 14 and 15, and i admire their upbringing. I'm sincerely happy and we have always this modive to take day by day and explore what happens. The feelings weren't intentional and neither was the drama within my fmaliy, but it just happened that way. February 22, 2007 12:05:12 |
Ashley Says
|
Love knows no age!! If you find the one that makes you happy, and wow he just happens to be older, go for it!! Life is too short to worry what others will think.
Trust me, I am 30 and my man is 48, and I wouldnt trade him for any man in this world! I saw this quote on line and dont know who said it but I like it..." dont settle for the one that you can live with, settle for the one that you cant live without!" Go with what makes you happy!!April 05, 2007 18:52:20 |
Tara Says
|
I am in love with a man who is 13 years older then me. I am 24 & he is 37 and I would not have it any other way. We have nearly everything in common and the level of emotional intimacy we share is unmatched! When you truly fall in love with someone and experience that pure bliss age is irrelevant. April 11, 2007 08:37:02 |
Princess Charming Says
|
I am divorced and had no idea that I would ever date someone older than 5 years my age.
To my surpise, I met the most wonderful man, 14 years older with a heart of a champion and one that has melted me quite naturally. If there is a such thing and there is much today, of love online. We're there.April 24, 2007 20:52:54 |
Memphis Woman Says
|
I am new at this so excuse me. I just recently met this older guy and he seems cool. I've always liked younger guys and found them to be "FUN". Then i realized that all they were was "FUN". This older gentelman seems more focused and asured of who he is and what he wants. Don't know where this is going but i like the thoughtfulness and genuine concern an older man brings with him. I guess things are better with age. May 31, 2007 16:59:09 |
Hope Says
 |
Well I must say I never thought I would date anybody more than 6-7 yrs older than me, but that changed when I got sick of men my age or a bit younger or older, but now I'm dating a man that is 53 yrs old and I'm about 29 about to turn 30. I was worried at first about the age difference but that faded fast. My man treats me so great, loving, with respect, just a great pkg overall!!! Best thing is we were great friends for 10 monthes before we got together so that helped build a strong foundation for us..... I couldnt be happier. Just havent told me father about my relationship, and I'm a fraid he will be very disappointed in me, but I cant change that... my mom on the other hand is ok with it, and told me that she always thought that I would date an older guy... how funny is that!! So for everybody.. you just have to go with your heart and do and be with who makes you happy!!! Good luck everybody!! July 15, 2007 16:37:12 |
Susan Says
 |
I fell in love when I was 16 and he was 56. Love at first sight. I never lived with him as I thought he was too old and I could manage without him. 24 years on I am 39 he is 79. I still love him with all my heart. I do not live with him but we see each other nearly every day. It has ruined my life by not being with him, and every relationship I have had has failed. He is still with his wife who he was willing to leave for me and still would. I was too afraid to be with him because of the age gap. Instead I am deeply unhappy to be without him. I still love him with all my heart. Always have and always will. I do not know how I will live without him should anything happen to him. My advice is follow your heart not your head. Ignore what anyone else says because at the end of the day you are the one having to live with the consequences. Be true to yourself. August 14, 2007 14:02:24 |
Lindy Loo Says
 |
I started dating a man 15 yrs older than me in Jan 2007, I was a little skeptical at first because of the age difference and what people would think. But it is now August and I can truly say I love this Man with all my heart and he treats me like a Queen. This is the best decision I could have ever made in choosing a mate. We are to be married in December of this year. August 14, 2007 20:34:04 |
Deshae Says
|
I fell in love with a wonderful man. Im 23 and he is 48 (25 year age difference). When we first met we never expected to be where we are today. We met at work and we started to just pay so much attention to one another it was great. We started off as friends. I felt like I could open my heart to this man and he felt the same. Still to this day there is nothing that we hide from eachother. We also share the same feelings for one another, a feeling that is very hard to find. Sometimes people don't even experience these feelings. I am so lucky. I can tell you that I never felt like this for a man before. And I have dated men my age and my love right now is so different. He's much mor mature and knows how to please me in ways that are un explainable. He treats me so great. He will do anything for me and I will do anything for him. He has 3 kids and I admire there upbringing. I am so happy with him and no one can change my mind. I haven't told my mother about him because I feel like she will not take it well but I can't hide it from her forever. If she ever gets to know this wonderful man she will fall in love with him just like I did. He has a heart of gold and all i believe is to go with your heart. If you can see your future with a man older, and you feel deep down inside that hes your soulmate please don't let other people bring you down. Do what your heart tells you. August 24, 2007 15:54:32 |
Nic Says
 |
hello, all my ex-boyfriends were very older than me, I am always appealed to mature men.I fell in love with a Brtitsh man who came to Southamerica to meet me in person in May.We first met on a chat room two years ago.I realy enjoyed to live with him for 2 months. I take him to diferent nice places around Buenos Aires.He is 60 years old and Iam 37.I love him a lot. I miss him very much since he returned to England. I have been feeling lonely and sad all these months. I want to meet him in person again soon and share my life with him forever. we keep in touch by emails and cam chattings on the web.I'll travel to England in December.He is waiting for me there. I think if you love your man deeply you shouldnt mind How old he is and what he looks like.LOVE is the best feeling.
PS. sorry, if you don't understand my English very well as my mother tongue is Spanish.October 06, 2007 09:15:41 |
Patricia Says
|
Men over 30 are not attractive. While they are past their prime physically they are heading into their prime earning years, though. The only ones to find women, esp. younger ones, are the ones with huge bank accounts. Women are attracted to their money. Old men refuse to realize this. October 20, 2007 17:25:42 |
K Says
|
The hardest thing about having an old coot for a husband is that when you get finished changing the kid's diaper you have to change his. October 20, 2007 17:28:40 |
Rick Says
 |
Im 21 with a man aged 39 (18 yrs of age apart).I love him with a passion & we have been 2gether for only about 4/5 months.It kinda just happened.I respect him and love him dearly.Nothing else matters but the love we share.Nobodys really disapprovred, and if they did,id tell them it aint their business.I know its love and not lust anyway,i can see myself with this man forever.love has no age limits. November 07, 2007 07:10:11 |
Marilyn Says
 |
I am 31 and he is 56. For me age is just a number. Life is too short to dwell on other peoples opinion. I love this man and he loves me back. We both respect,appreciate, and understand our differnces. He is a very affectionate,successful,and caring man. I enjoy every moment with him. I just can't wait to spend the rest of my life with him. December 08, 2007 22:06:45 |
B Says
|
I am a young vital and vivacious 32 year old woman. I had met this man nearly 10 years ago when I was a struggling young woman with too much interest in the world and not enough know how to do anything about it.
I was writing about arts and culture for a small magazine and he was the marketing director for an arts organization. There was something about him. Something unexplainable that I just felt when we were in each others presence. I stood like the woman I wanted so desperatly to be. I spoke and laughed in ways that suggested a charming maturity. I felt more a sense of my inherent self than I had ever before. We only met on two occasions but those two occasions left me with a profound sense of admiration for this "older" man. Nothing more...just a sure sense of wanting to know him as he made me feel alive. He was not even in my scope of possibilities..older men never really had been. Especially ones older than my father.
Fast forward 10 years and I am now working for the arts organization. I had taken a simple job there nearly 8 years ago but he had recently left for another job and so we had no connection at that time. This time however it came upon me like a storm. I noticed him...he looked familiar. I asked around and it turned out that shortly after I left he had come back. The brown haired man was now grey...but the sparkle...the light and the laughter was still very much there.
We started as just chatting with each other as one would to get to know another. He did not remember me in my youth and I forgave him for this. One night we decided to have dinner to talk over some plans for the organization. By the end of dinner I had a feeling that this man was about to lay a move...I thought "oh hell how do I get out of this...he is kidding right". I'm an attractive socially connected woman...i don't need to look for a date. Especially with a grey haired old man. Then as we to say goodnight he leaned in for a hug and instead dropped his face to land a kiss. As soon as it was coming I thought..."turn your head..quick..turn your head" but I wasn't fast enough and his lips met mine and it was like a lightbulb bursting when a flip is switched to quickly. It took me two seconds to decide to lean back in for more. I got out of the car in such a swirl that I remeber laughing and pressing my hands to my lips. What the hell had just happened? He...i worked with him..he...much much older...me...did i just do that...complication everywhere.
That was the beginning. It has been a certian trial in times for the two of us to try to move beyond the age. I saw it as novelty or atleast that is what i told myself so as to hide the depth of what I had been feeling. After time it has revealed that this man whom is 60 years old has shown to be maybe the absolute love of my life. A 28 year age difference and i feel nothing. We somehow are linked. Like the souls we carry share a common thread of understanding the world. He is so young and progressive. Readt to take on the world. I live a fairly busy and exciting life...it is hard for most men to keep up. This man could not only keep up but could easily convince me to stay home and snuggle on the couch instead of attending the next social engagement.
What i've learned from this...love is love is love! I know that it will help in the process of the rest of my life to have had this experience with this man. I don't know that I have ever adored a man more in my life. It is amazing.December 21, 2007 05:40:42 |
Joliene Says
Leave A Reply
Related Articles
|
